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During my sojourn in the Ivory Tower, I knew many guys who
had their girlfriends stay with them! The truth is that any girl
that brings her stuffs to stay in your house in school must have
a secrete plan. Now, you ain’t married yet she stays with you
in your one-room apartment or probably, a bed-sitter. You may
think you are having a swell time, but my guy, let me tell you,
you are definitely in for it!!! When a guy allows his girlfriend to
stay with him in school, he is bound to do the following 5
foolish things:

1) You spend the hard-earned money of your parents or
guardians to rent an apartment and she packs in. She will save
the money that has been given to her and use it to better her
life! You go dey there dey form ‘married man’ grin I guess you
have never worked for money before so you don’t freaking
know what it means to cough out thousands or hundreds of
thousands to rent an apartment! I know guys who wouldn’t allow
their younger ones stay with them in school, but dem fit pay
continuously for an apartment for dem and their girlfriends from
100L to final year. What a pity!!!


2) You start feeding her! Deh say small pikin wey wan carry e
papa for shoulder, na big blokos go suffocate am!!! grin When
you decide to live like a married man, you must also accept the
responsibilities of a married man! Simple. How can you be taking
care of somebody when you are still being taken care of? I
don’t get it. Most girls who find themselves in such position
would definitely pray it lasts till they sit for their degree exams!
She buys Brazilian hairs, jewelry, shoes, bags, clothes, etc with
her up-keep money grin And you? You use yours to buy breads,
fry eggs and make tea for the both of you! Not forgetting that
her friends will still come and eat. When will you have sense
then?

3) If both of you are in the same dept., you end up doing
assignments for her, writing tests and exams for her! Didn’t
God give her brain? There’s a high possibility that she would
graduate with a 2.1 and you, a 2.2 or a 3rd class because God
must surely punish you for cheating and impersonating grin

4) You lose your privacy and the opportunity to interact and
associate with other reasonable, focused and ambitious students on
campus! Your friends take precaution before they visit you. You
are stuck with just one person. Why do you think young people
are always encouraged to reach out to and make friends with
members of the opposite sex far from the time they would be
getting married? I ask you, Papa Lotanna!!! Yes, that’s who you
aregrin since you have decided to get married in school without
the knowledge of your parents. That’s why I still prefer private
universities. Things like cohabiting hardly take place!

5) Foolishly thinking that both of you will get married at last!
Most of the guys I knew personally in the university who
cohabited with their girlfriends were later dumped or jilted after
graduation. Reason: those girls would not want to lose their
privacy normally living with a guy from 100L to final year but
they decided to cohabit to save their resources and live on the
guys’ resourcesgrin I told you, these girls have plans and you
are not part of their plans…just one of the steps on the ladder
for those plans to be achieved!!! So when will you have sense, I
asked again?
Go to school, study very hard, learn a trade or skill as you are
schooling. Make adequate plans for life after graduation. Stop
making marriage plans with your that babe that cohabits with you.
If you do, you do, you either day-dreaming or living in a fool’s
paradise! You are free to have girlfriend because you are mature
but don’t allow them cohabit with you!
A word is enough for the wise…peace to ya’ all.

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